The obituary says "In lieu of flowers," but I still would like to send flowers – is this appropriate?

Yes. Many people send a remembrance to the service or family home as well as a donation to the charity indicated.  Flowers can be a thoughtful gift of support during a difficult time.

I am not sure how to sign the card. What should I say?

Most enclosure cards are pre-printed with messages like "Deepest sympathy" or "Our Thoughts and Prayers are With You." All you need to do is sign your name. You should use your first and last name to avoid confusion for the family.

Delivering to:
Chapman Cole and Gleason Funeral Home
2599 Cranberry Highway,Wareham

Wareham Village Funeral Home
5 Center Street, Wareham

Saunders-Dwyer Funeral Home
50 County Road, Mattapoisett